Showing posts with label extended family. Show all posts
Showing posts with label extended family. Show all posts
Thursday, October 25, 2012 1 comments By: Kate

Anything that can go wrong...

You know the saying.

This is a grump-fest post.  Please don't feel like you need to cheer me up or anything.  Sometimes I just need to write down some of the stuff banging around in my head to make it stop bothering me.  Believe me, once I finish this post, I will feel lots better and I'll be able to move on cheerfully.  First, though, a rant.

Why is it that bad stuff all happens a once?  I mean, really?!


  • You already know my new car is in the body shop getting plastic surgery after an unfortunate incident that messed up its tail end.  Still not back.
  • You also already know I hate my weenie-mobile rental car.  Now more than ever for reasons about to be revealed.
  • Monday, Will drove to school and accidentally left the parking lights on in the Expedition, which killed the battery.  Dead as a doornail (what a weird phrase!).  Do you know how long it takes to use a weenie-mobile battery to jump start a big beastly Expedition battery?  A little over 40 minutes.  Since we were in the mostly empty school parking lot... no sweat.
  • This morning, while Will was driving to school, the Expedition suddenly lost power everything (steering and electrics), then died on him when he managed to get it pulled mostly onto the side of the road.  He was blocking the right turn lane, but at least he was out of the middle of the road, right?
  • Automotive gymnastics was not on my to-do list today, but I still managed to get the weenie-mobile nose to nose with the Expedition despite all the other drivers on the road looking at me like I'd lost my mind.  Oh, and to get the full visual, be sure to put me in pajamas!
  • Trying to jump start an elephant like the Expedition with a mouse like the weenie-mobile in the middle of traffic during morning rush hour?  Not on my list of fun activities for the day.  It didn't work, of course, because we didn't have 40 minutes to sit around and wait for a big enough charge to build up.
  • Don't you think tow companies are in the business of coming to the rescue of stranded motorists?  If you thought so, you'd be as wrong as I was.  I was told by two different companies that they "didn't have time to come out to tow my car".
  • I can feel more expenses coming on with these new car troubles.
  • Helena's phone is on the blink (it only works sporadically at this point), so she missed the text from her boss telling her that the shifts had been changed and why wasn't she at work today?  
  • Helena also managed to fall on the stairs today while home alone and is now sporting wicked scabs and bruises all over her legs and feet. (I am truly glad it wasn't worse!  What if she'd broken a leg while all alone at home!  Poor girl.)
  • Will's friend, Dallan, actually DID break his leg yesterday.  He'll require surgery that sidelines him for the entire skiing season.  Poor boy!  Dallan is Will's best skiing buddy, so I know Will's bummed, too.
  • Will has been given an "Unexcused Absence" by his English teacher for leaving class early.  That freezes his grade until he goes to Attendance School TWICE.  An unexcused absence is considered a sluff and carries double penalty.  Each attendance school session costs $5.
  • I've had a dead toe nail ever since the half Ironman back in August.  Could it just fall off already?!?
  • And to top it all of?  I HAVE A STUPID COLD SORE!  Gah!  



See.  I feel better already.

PS:  I do need to say this...

As Will and I were stuck on the side of the road, desperately trying to figure out how to get out of the way of traffic and get the dumb Expedition back home, Liz M (Bill's niece) happened to drive by in her (nicer, newer, better-er) Expedition and asked if we needed a tow!

!!!!

Hooray for Liz!!!!

I sent Will home in the rental while I rode in our Expedition as Liz towed it back home.  She was my life saver this morning and completely turned a disastrous situation around!!!  (Note to self:  I was very impressed that Liz just happened to have a tow rope in her car.  I should get one and put it in my car, just in case...... whenever I get my car back, that is)

PPS:  I also need to say this...

When Bill got home from work this evening, he used his gargantuan work truck to jump start the Expedition and then left them hooked up charging the battery for a couple of hours.  That should keep the Expedition running until Saturday, when he can take it in to have the battery and alternator checked.

PPPS:  Really, I'm just about done...

Can you tell that some of my rants are just silly?  Those are my way of humorizing my life.  If you can't laugh at yourself, life is pretty grim.
Wednesday, October 17, 2012 0 comments By: Kate

...and Now He Drives!

I briefly mentioned in the post titled "First Accident" that Will has his driver's license.  He took driver's ed over the summer (early June, in fact), but only finished up the road portion of the class in early October because the school got backlogged and didn't get around to scheduling him until then.  Yeah.  I signed him up for SUMMER driver's ed so I could have a full week of early morning road tests done DURING our busy school schedule.  Thanks for that!

Anyways, he completed it just fine and was able to get his driver's license over the weekend.  Today was the first day there was a car available for him to drive himself to school.  We have two cars.  I drive one to work (which is currently a 'weenie-mobile' rental car while my damaged car gets repaired), and the other is for whomever in the family needs it at the time.  Sometimes Bill takes it off into the mountains for adventuring, but usually it is used by Helena to get to and from work.  Now, it is also for Will to get himself to and from school.  So, we have to plan out the week in advance to see where everyone needs to be, and when.  If Helena doesn't work until afternoon/evening shift, then Will can take the car to school.  If Helena works morning shift, Will is out of luck and I drive him to school.

This is not an easy thing for me; letting my youngest son drive.

Fourteen and a half years ago, my youngest brother was 16 years old, and just 3 months into having his driver's license when he was killed in a car accident.  That was a dark and difficult time for everyone in our family and I hesitate to even bring it up, for fear of bringing my mother pain.  I know she reads this blog.

A tragedy like that is something you never truly 'get over'.  Will was only 2 years old at the time, so he never got to know the uncle of whom he reminds me.

Because he does.

There is much in Will's personality that is similar to my little brother, Kris.  Will has a sensitive soul.  He is empathetic in a way that is rare in someone so young.  Kris was the same way.  Sometimes, I even thought his features were similar.  So, I have seen echoes of my little brother within my son as he has grown.

And now he is driving.

It makes me extra nervous, beyond the norm.  Last weekend's car accident didn't help, either.  I wish I knew how long it will take me to become okay with him driving.  Three months?  Six?  A year?  Until he is 18?

Never?!  Gah!  I hope not!

I am grateful for the probationary nature of new driver's licenses here.  Besides night-time restrictions (no driving from midnight to 5 am), he is also not allowed to have ANY passengers other than family members for the first 6 months.  This is supposed to eliminate showboating for peers during the first months of building driving experience.  The woman who issued him his license was also kind enough to remind him that, until he is 18, his driver's license belongs to his parents, who can take it away from him at any time and for any reason.

He drove to school for the first time, today.  He left 30 minutes early to avoid the "rush hour" parking situation at the high school parking lot and texted me upon his safe arrival.  After school, he went to see teachers about improving his grades... and to allow the parking lot to empty out before he drove home.  That will be the routine until further notice.

I can't and won't stop him from driving.  It is part of growing up and I can't deny him an important part of that transition from childhood to adulthood.

But, oh!  It is hard.
Sunday, August 26, 2012 5 comments By: Kate

Utah Half 2012

This was the event I have been planning and training for all year.  I have been dreading it for the past 3 months; afraid I wouldn't be able to accomplish it.  Surprisingly, the day before the race, I was able to compartmentalize my mind, so it didn't really hit me that the race was tomorrow until after I finished teaching for the day and started heading home from work.  Once THE RACE was the next thing on the agenda, that's when I really started stressing out.  So I guess it is a good thing I only had to go through the physical reactions to stress for a few hours instead of a few days!

It was like how I felt before my first half marathon, only multiplied by 10.  I thought I might be sick.

Early evening of the day before the race, my right hip started hurting deep in the joint.  It was more like an ache... it felt like it needed to pop.  That got me really paranoid!

(Hey guys, the next paragraph mentions female body parts and processes.  If you want, you can skip ahead to the next paragraph and we won't think any less of you.)

As if I wasn't nervous enough already, Aunt Flo stopped by for her monthly visit on the night before the race!  I hadn't even thought about how to deal with that kind of hygiene issue while on an all day kind of race.  I was worried about possible cramping during the race.  Not to mention how much more painful this was going to make my time on the bike, since lady parts get touchy and sensitive when Aunt Flo comes over.  In the end, I decided not to deal with Aunt Flo at all and just let that be one more layer of gross-ness that can be showered off after the race was over.  That strategy worked well for me, by the way.  Sorry.  I know that seems gross, but you do what you gotta do.

(Okay, guys.  You can come back now.)

The night before the race we had our normal Friday date night at Rubio's.  I packed my tri bag and my special needs bag.  Will loaded his windsurf board on top of the car (hoping for good wind while waiting for me during the race, it wasn't to be).  I had a second dinner of chicken and pasta.  I went to bed early.

On the morning of the race, I dragged myself out of bed at 5 am.  Bill did a last minute tune up of my bike and got it loaded on the car.  The kids slowly emerged from their bedrooms, and I actually managed to eat my entire breakfast and felt surprisingly calm.  I think it helped that I was alone in the kitchen at the time.  People talking to me about all things pertaining to the event seems to kill my ability to swallow.  I took a dose of naproxen sodium to keep swelling down and prevent joint pain, too.

We got down to the Provo marina just after 6 am.  The pre race meeting was scheduled to start at 6:20 and the race was supposed to begin at 7 am.  In the meantime, I had to get my number painted on (293), pick up and put on my timing chip (it goes around your ankle), set up my transition station, and get into my wetsuit.

It was a big transition station.  And mostly already full.  I wasn't the last to arrive, but the transition opened up at 4 am, so I was looking at just getting whatever space I could find.  However, I found just the perfect spot!  Transition is so big, and has so many bikes in it, that it can be hard to find yours if you aren't paying close attention to details.  The racks have row letters painted in the center aisle, starting with A, going through the alphabet, and repeating with double letters beyond that (I think mine was DD, or something like that).  But I had a better marker.  My bike was close to the lake and lined up perfectly with the exit ramp from the swim!

The pre-race meeting started late and because of that, the race also started late.  Instead of a 7 am start, I think the first wave of swimmers started at 7:27.  Or maybe it was 7:37.  Either way, it ended in a 7 because I did look at my watch.  I was in the last wave again.  Bill and the kids looked forward to watching me in the swim, but they weren't confident they'd be able to find me.  The joke was, "just look for the swimmer in the black wetsuit and the green cap."  Most people were in black wetsuits and the green cap was required for the race.  Still, with my pink goggles and the huge bump in the back of my swim cap made by my hair, they said they were able to spot me.

All my pre-race nerves washed away the moment I stepped into the water.  I had no thoughts beyond what was right in front of me... the swim.  I was committed.  It had begun.  The water was calm.  Flat.  Even if it was murky Utah Lake water.  Some final start line instructions through a megaphone and we're off!

There was lots of thrashing.  Lots of accidentally kicking someone and being kicked.  Or hit by flailing arms.  I think there is just no way around that.  I have a bruise on my left forearm that must be from someone kicking me.  We had to do 2 laps around the buoys.  My wave got into the swim course as the pros and men were starting their second lap, so the course was crowded.  I kept swimming off to my left and getting farther from the buoys than I wanted to.  However, it did get me out of the heavy traffic flow and I was able to settle down into my swim rhythm, which is something I couldn't do in last week's sprint.

Here's a secret about the Utah Half swim.  One fourth of the course is in shallow enough water to put your feet down and walk.  If you don't mind deep, soft, slimy mud, that is.  I found this out when I went to practice the course several weeks ago.  Apparently, there were plenty of people willing to put their feet in that mud, too.  I saw several walkers on the back stretch.  And, I admit it.  I did put my feet down for a few moments to rest on the second lap.  I even walked a few steps to catch my breath.  But only a few, I promise!

I know.  CHEAT!  Ah well.  It was only a couple of steps.  I didn't walk the entire section, as I saw others do.

Another thing I have noticed about the swim portion of triathlons is... backstroke is a BAD IDEA.  I can't tell you how many backstrokers I've seen headed off in the wrong direction!  Some into the center of the course, others out to sea (so to speak).  So, unless you are rockstar at keeping a straight course while stroking on your back... stick to front crawl and breast stroke so you can see where you are going!!!  Work out whatever issues you have with technique or breathing, because it is NOT worth it to end up massively off course in the middle of a race.  I do front crawl all the way, using breast stroke only to take a breather if I need one.

I had one bad moment in the swim halfway through when I suddenly started gagging and retching.  I don't know why, but I did manage to get it under control and keep swimming.  Finally I was in the last stretch of the swim and headed to the exit ramp.  Oh, that was the longest part of the swim!

I finished the swim in just under 51 minutes.  Not as fast as my pool swims by a long shot, but I was happy with how I'd done.

Will was waiting on the ramp for me.  He wanted to help me out of the water, but an official got to me first.  It was just as well, because I had forgotten to mention to the kids (and Bill, for that matter) that it was against the rules for me to accept help from anyone except officials and volunteers.  I gave Will a big, wet hug anyway and jogged off to the transition and my bike.

Helena came running up to congratulate me on the swim.  She and Will kept me company (through the fence) while I stripped off my wetsuit and got into my cycling gear.  It took me longer in transition because the kids were there, but I don't care.  I'd rather have my kids there showing me their love and support than have a fast transition time.  Bill was down at the car getting his bike ready.  The bike course was all on public roads, so I asked him if he would ride it with me, for moral support.  Besides, if I got a flat, I'd need him to fix it for me, rules or no rules.  I haven't learned that skill, yet.  I know.  My bad.  He was not the only non-competitor along the course.  There were lots of locals taking advantage of the policed course to get their personal workouts in.

Fortunately, I didn't get a single flat.  But we found other people stranded on the side of the road, and Bill always stopped to help them.  I'd keep going and he would catch up as soon as he could.  The first time was just right outside the marina park.  Bill said it took him 3 miles to catch up to me that time.  Another time Bill stopped to help a rider, the guy had already had 4 flats (we hadn't gotten to the half way point, yet) and a torn side wall on his tire.  Bill offered to give him a new tire (he was packing one for me... just in case), but the guy said 'no thanks, I'm done' and quit the race.  That was the first one I saw that could not complete the race.  Not the last.

The bike was 56 miles of beautiful rural countryside.  Mostly.  There was a little city riding, but there were cops at every intersection stopping traffic for us.  I loved that!  Early on I decided to go around 17 mph and keep to that pace.  That's only 1 mph over my training speed, so I felt it was doable.  I ended up averaging 17.5 mph, so my plan worked!

I picked up a bottle of Gatorade at the fueling station at the 15 mi mark.  I'd never snatched a bottle mid-ride before.  The volunteers hold them out to the riders as they ride past.  I'm proud of myself for managing to do it without crashing.  Most riders squirt as much of the liquid as possible into their mouths (or water pouches if they are on fancy/expensive tri bikes), then chuck the bottles to the side of the road for the volunteers to pick up later.  I stuck it in my extra bottle cage and kept it for the rest of the ride.

The ride was an out and back.  At the turn around (28 miles), there were volunteers waiting to bring special needs bags to the riders when they call out their bib number.  Most riders quickly stuff whatever they had packed into their jersey (or where ever) and are on their way in 30 seconds or less.

Not me.  I full on stopped and unclipped.  I was probably there for 10 minutes, just eating what I had packed.  I'm not good at eating while I'm riding.  So I stood there and ate my banana, protein drink, and whatever else I'd put in there for calories to make it to the next refueling back at transition.

I have to say that during the first half of the bike, I'd passed a lot of people.  They all blasted past me while I had my picnic at the turn around.  But the interesting thing is...

... on the second half of the bike, I passed them all back again, plus a few more people as well!  Many of them weren't able to sustain the same speed in the second half of the bike as they had in the first.  I maintained the same speeds throughout.  So I think the picnic turned out to be a good idea in the end.

Oh, and I can't tell you how good it felt to pass those 22 and 23 year old men.  And that one 36 year old guy that got so upset about me passing him, yet he couldn't manage to catch back up to me.  Hee, hee.  (Sorry.  Not very sporting of me.)

I can't thank Bill enough for coming with me on the bike!  He made it fun and relaxing, just like one of our normal training rides together.  So, thanks again, sweetheart!  You rock!

The watering station at mile 41 came up much faster than I'd expected, and before you know it, I was counting down the last 6 miles of the bike.  I wasn't sure what my increased pace on the bike was going to do to my running legs... the segment of the race I dreaded the most.

Back in transition, I took another dose of naproxen sodium, since I knew it had been 6 or more hours since the last dose.  I ate another banana and some other sport beans & Gu while I switched from my biking gear to my running gear.  I really spent a lot of time in transition this time, nearly 10 minutes!  But the kids were so happy to see me and hear about the bike that I spent some time talking to them while Bill put his bike away in the car and hurried to join them and wish me luck on the run.

Okay, I was also stalling because I really didn't want to do the run.  I still had to run a half marathon and all I really wanted to do was go jump back in the lake!

But, I couldn't stop now, with the swim and bike over, I was 2/3 done.  And, early that morning, I had written a message to myself on my left forearm.  "YouCanDoThis".  Just in case it was ever in doubt.



So, finally, I said goodbye to the family and headed out on the run.

Running without music is HARD.  I spent most of my time counting my breaths.  Sixty breaths of running.  20 breaths of walking.  Repeat.  I knew if I just ran without taking breaks, I wouldn't make it. So, I created intervals that I could sustain over the long haul.  I knew my time would be slower than a normal half marathon, but I thought it would be acceptable considering what I'd already gone through that day.  I was just hoping to come in under 3 hours on the run.  And I did!  2 hours 54 minutes.

The run is by far the most social part of the race.  The competitors can finally see eye to eye and chat with one another as they pass on the route.  Don't get me wrong, we were friendly on the bike, too, but the run was more so.  It was a two lap course, so there we were passing each other coming and going.  Lots of high fives and encouragement for each other.  Care and concern when you could see someone struggling.  I saw a man give up on the race during what I think was his second lap of the run.  Others were doubling over with nausea, but managed to keep going.  One awesome older gentleman was hobbling along with both knees in braces and a grimace on his face, but he never gave up.

I met a 34 year old woman named Lynette.  We ran together for about 1/2 a mile until she had to drop back.  She said this was her third year doing this race, and she's come in dead last in her division every year, but she just keeps coming and doing it anyways.  She had a great attitude about it.  She said that she may be slow, but only 1% of the world's population has ever participated in a triathlon, and only 1% of that group has ever attempted 70.3 or bigger.  I don't know if her figures are accurate, but they inspired her to keep going.  Several people congratulated me after the race on joining the 'elite' athletes, since this was my first monster race.  I laughed at that, because I don't consider myself an athlete, let alone an 'elite' one.

I have to say that the aid stations on the run were the best I've ever seen! They were roughly every mile.   There was water, Heed (an electrolyte drink), Gatorade, Coke (I tried it at one station and decided it was a bad idea... carbonation, no), gels, ice, and salt tablets.  Oh, and every other aid station had a kid maning a hose to spray down any athlete who wanted it.  I was carrying Will's phone (I'd forgotten mine at home), but I mostly managed to keep his phone dry AND get hosed off every single time.

For a few miles towards the end, my left ankle was hurting, and so was my right knee.  But after a while, they stopped hurting.  It's as if they decided since I wasn't paying attention, they'd just play nice.

I used the phone to text my position to the family periodically, starting at mile 7, so they would know when to position themselves at the finish and cheer.  By the end of the run, I was counting 20 breaths running, 20 breaths walking.  But, I made it!  I crossed the finish line with Bill, Helena, Will... and my brother, Erik, and his wife, Deanna, there to cheer me on!  I thought it was so awesomely sweet of Erik and Deanna to make time in their day to come see me finish!!!

After cooling down and visiting for a while, I discovered that Helena had gotten some specialized markers and wrote messages to me all over my car!  She was afraid I might get mad, but I loved it!  We got so many curious looks from other motorists on the freeway as we drove home.





The finisher's medal is a seriously heavy piece of hardware.  It felt cool wearing it and I was proud to earn it, but I can't help wondering just what, exactly, I'm supposed to do with it now (along with the others I've collected).  I think I'll get a curtain rod and install it on a wall in the back hall and hang them from that.  Bill can hang his, too.

Now I feel sore, tired, and hungry.  I calculated that I burned between 5,500 and 6,100 calories that day.  I have no idea how many I ingested.  Not that many, for sure.  Not even by half.

So, everything I eat today tastes absolutely AMAZING.  Really.  I don't think scrambled eggs have ever tasted so good!

However, I feel amazingly good!  Not as sore as I was after my first ever half marathon two years ago.

 I still can't believe I did it.  It didn't feel so huge while I was in the middle of doing it.  Just one step at a time until you get to the end and realize you just traveled 70.3 miles!

I'll stop rambling now and move on with my life.  Thanks for sticking with this extremely long winded post!  And thanks to all of you for your kindness, friendship, and encouragement along the journey!



Oh, and what's next, you ask?

Red Rock Relay - Zion

in two weeks.

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Official Record

PlaceBibName                       DivSwim   T1   Bike      T2   Run    Official

302293Katharina WatsonF404450:575:533:19:219:382:54:137:20:00.4

Wednesday, August 22, 2012 0 comments By: Kate

Saratoga Springs Sprint Tri 2012



I signed up for this race as an after thought.  All my energy and focus has been on the monster race coming up next Saturday.  Throughout the summer, my son, Will, had expressed passing interest in doing the Saratoga Sprints tri.  He didn't seem too interested in actually training, though, so I didn't think he was serious.  Finally, with only a couple of weeks before the sprint, he finally told me that he really did want to do it.  So, I decided it would be a fun thing for both of us to do it!  My brother, Erik, was already registered for it, and so was my friend, Michelle.  I figured that, if nothing else, it would be a good practice run for transitions.

On race day morning, I was nervous.  So weird, because I had done this one before and the distances seemed very tame to me... and I wasn't even going to push myself on it, just take it easy and enjoy the ride, so to speak.  Still, I was nervous and had a hard time eating my pre race breakfast.  Half of my oatmeal went down the drain, and Bill finished the second half of my banana for me.

When we got to the marina, Bill discovered that Will's front bike tire had a slow leak, so he repaired it while Will and I went to the body marking station and got our timing chips attached to our ankles.  The volunteers put a number 90 on my forearm and my left calf, and wrote my age on my right calf.  Will was number 85.  I actually like that everyone's age is visible on their calf, because you can see the ages of the people you pass (and passing you) in the bike and run portions.  More on that later.

We arranged our bikes and gear in the transition area.  For those of you who have never done or watched a triathlon, the swim portion starts the race.  When athletes exit the water, they run up to the 'transition area'.  This is a fenced in area where the bikes are put on racks waiting for the second part of the race.  All your gear is gathered on and around the bike in (hopefully) a super organized way to speed up your transition from one segment of the race to the next.  For instance, my helmet hung from the handlebars with my glasses, gloves, and race number tucked inside.  My tri bag was on the ground just in front of the bike with my bike shoes resting on top, and my running gear just below (running shoes, socks, visor).  When you return from the bike, you quickly hang your bike on the rack and switch to your running gear.  There are plastic mats at the entrance and exit of the transition area that ping your timing chip and mark the end of segments and the beginning and ending of your transitions.  So the timing chip records swim, T1 (transition one), bike, T2 (transition two), run.

After getting all set up, we wandered down to the water's edge to hear the final pre-race instructions and to say hello to several people that I know from the community (I teach in Saratoga Springs, so I knew several of the volunteers and even some of the other racers).

The race is started in waves.  This keeps the water from being too crowded with thrashing bodies.  Erik was in the 2nd wave, Will was in the 3rd wave, and I was in the 5th and final wave.  When the race was over, I had to subtract 8 minutes from my finish time, because my wave started the race 8 minutes after the timing chips were activated.

My friend, Michelle, was in my same wave, so we got in the water next to each other and waited for our starting horn to sound.  There really were not very many ladies in our wave (the 5th wave was for women ages 35 and up).  There couldn't have been more than 15 of us, if that.  I have not been working on speed at all in my swimming and it really showed in this race!  Michelle left me in the dust (or milky, murky water since "dust" is probably not a good descriptor for a swimming race).  I really struggled with the swim this time around, and it had me panicking for next weekend's race.  I couldn't find my rhythm and I spent WAY too much time with my head out of the water looking forward.  It wasn't until I was around the final buoy and headed back to shore that I was able to improve my technique to some extent.  Still, I got out of the water feeling VERY discouraged and I walked to the transition area instead of running.

Oh, I can't forget to mention the woman doing the backstroke in front of me... going the wrong direction!  I stopped her several times and pointed her in the right direction.  She'd correct her course, then end up curving off on some wrong tangent again!  It kept her zig-zagging in front of me and I had a hard time passing her.

When I got to transition, I found that Will was still there.  He had enjoyed the swim and found it surprisingly less difficult than he had feared.  That made me feel very happy!  All I wanted was for him to have a good time and want to do it again next year.  He was taking his time in transition.  Bill and Deanna were there, just on the other side of the fencing (spectators aren't allowed in the transition area), goading Will to hurry-it-up!  He took his time, though, which is totally fine, of course.  This was his first ever triathlon.  Next time he will streamline things and will be faster.

Will left transition a few minutes before I did, but I caught up to and passed him quickly on the bike.  This was one area of the race where training really did pay off for me.  My summer of cycle training has given me strong quads and hamstrings!  I hammered down on the pedals and passed TONS of people!  Oh!  That felt GOOD!  I got passed a couple of times on some hill climbs, but I blasted past them again on the downs and flats.  No one passed me for a second time.  Boy, this sounds like bragging, but I can't help it.  I rocked the bike!

Here is where it got fun to see the ages on people's calves.  I felt pretty great passing a 19 year old boy on the bike!

The bike portion of the race was along a 12 mile strip of Redwood Road.  Local police turned it into a one lane road and escorted vehicles from one end to the other while racers took up both sides of the road (going out and coming back).  The bike course consisted of rolling hills climbing in elevation, then returning to the marina in an awesome downhill roller coaster!

T2 (transition 2) was my fastest transition to date.  In, out, and on my way in just over 2 minutes.  The run portion of this race was a 5K starting in an uphill climb out of the marina and into the surrounding neighborhood.  I'm not gonna lie.  The run is hard to get started on.  It is hard mentally, but also hard physically to start on an uphill just after getting off the bike.  Confession:  I walked almost all of the uphill portions of the run.  I also walked through the water stations.

...and I even stopped to "take a shower" when local residents held out their hoses on sprinkler mode for the athletes passing by.  I kid you not.  I literally stopped and rotated in a full circle, letting some little 10 year old hose me off before thanking him and heading on my way.  That home owner also set up their own watering station with the coldest water on the route!  Woot, woot!

The run is the segment of the race where the numbers on the calf can be both a blessing and a curse.  I am not an awesome runner, as I have already confessed, so lots of people passed me during the run.  Whenever someone passed me, I always took note of their age.  If it was a guy... "well, he's a guy.  So it's OK that he passed me, I'm not going to sweat it."  If it was a girl... "Oh, she's 24 years old.  Of course she's better at this than me!" or "Dang it!  She's my same age!  I can't let her get away with that!"  And so I'd pace her and keep up with her.

Still, all the goofing off I did meant that I expected a pretty poor run time.  I was surprised, therefore, to find out that I improved upon last year's run time by over a minute!

And, I came in THIRD PLACE in my age division!

At the awards ceremony, I actually blurted out, "What?!?  No way!!!" when my name was called.  I know my swim was sub par, as was my run, so it must have been the bike that put me on that 'podium'. (There was no podium, really)

We stuck around post race for the prize raffle.  Local businesses had donated gift certificates or other goodies, which were given out by randomly drawing out bib numbers.  My brother won a RoadID, and my son won a gift card to the local tri store, which he promptly traded to another winner for the National Guard backpack that she had won.  So, every triathlete in our party won something that day and we all came away from it feeling like rockstars!  Add to that an awesome post race lunch at a local joint called Sean's Barbecue (yup, it was AMAZING!) and you end up with a terrific day!  I'm looking forward to doing this race again next year.


Monday, July 02, 2012 1 comments By: Kate

Windsurfing

My Dad is a sailor.  All my childhood there was a sailboat in the driveway and summers on the water.  As a kid, all the lines (what sailors call all those ropes on the boat) were confusing and scary to me.  The fact that a sailboat tips with the wind always left me a bit unsettled, too.  Once when I was a teen, Dad took my best friend, Natalie, and me out for a sail.  A puff of wind got a bit too strong at just the wrong moment, tipping us a bit too much and causing water to come rushing into the cockpit on the starboard side, soaking me to my waist.  Dad hollered to "get to the top!"  (Meaning, climb up to the port side and add my weight to theirs in order to prevent us from capsizing)  It was a stressful moment...

... it was Natalie's first and last sailing trip.  She decided that sailing is just too stressful, and I tend to agree.

Except when the wind is calm.  Then it is just plain boring.

At least, it was for me, the kid.  I might just enjoy a calm wind sail these days.

Anyways, Dad was always trying to get one or several of his kids to come out and learn to sail with him.  None of us took him up on that, and I think he was always disappointed that he didn't have anyone to share his love of sailing with.

That is, until Will came along.  One summer, oh, about 4 or 5 years ago, we all went sailing with Dad during one of our family vacations to the Pacific Northwest.  Will LOVED it.  He was interested.  He wanted to learn.  We finally had another sailor in the family.  I really think the Nordic blood runs strong in my red headed son.  He loves to sail.  He loves to ski.  He loves anything to do with Norway.

Once I realized that Will wanted to learn, we started sending him up to visit his grandparents every summer in order to take sailing lessons from my Dad.  I also wanted to give him a chance to know his grandparents and Nordic heritage better.  I couldn't afford for all of us to go, so I just sent him.  After several summers, my Dad pointed out that we should use the money it cost to send him up there to find him his own small sailboat, because he was ready.  Of course, I still want to send him up there, but I think this isn't the summer for a PNW trip.

So, we've been on the lookout for a small sailboat for Will.

That is a hard thing to find in the desert.

Every time something that looks like a perfect match crops up in the classifieds, it is snapped up before we have a chance to try for it.

But then, we started to notice the windsurf boards that would crop up in the search along with the sailboats.  They were much more affordable.  And seemed like a potentially fun time.

This past Saturday afternoon, I stumbled across a GREAT deal.  A board with complete rigging (mast, boom, sail, harness, etc.).  Actually, it came with THREE sails and two harnesses.  And the boom is adjustable to the sizes of all three sails.  The whole package was only $100.  HOLY COW!  The three sails are worth more than that!  So I called immediately.

The ad had only been up for 9 hours.  We drove right out and bought it on the spot (after inspecting it, of course).  The couple selling it were very nice and we found that we had a lot in common with them.

We didn't tell Will what we were doing.  We just brought home a sailboard.

To say he was excited would be putting it mildly.  He was over the moon, and that was before he realized that we bought it solely for him and that it now belonged to him, not the family.  He was also more than a little nervous.  I can pretty much guarantee he spent most of Saturday night on YouTube, watching every windsurfing instructional video on there.  He did have the advantage of his sailing knowledge, so the terminology was an easy crossover.

We spent four hours on the lake on Sunday afternoon letting him try it out for the first time.  I gave it a try, too.  Man!  It is hard to pull that mast up out of the water and even harder to keep your balance once you have it up!  But Will has a lot of determination and by the end of the four hours he had the balance thing down and was able to hold the sail up for about a minute before dropping it again.  I took him to the lake again today for a few hours, and by the end, he was able to sail it the length of the beach and even successfully tacked around 180 degrees a couple of times.

He is completely hooked.  And I am very happy!  The windsurf board will refine his sailing skills and help him to know the wind on a very personal level.  Once we do find him a sailboat, the windsurfing experience will have been invaluable in getting him ready for big sails!

He was dismayed to find out that we wouldn't be going to the lake tomorrow.  My house needs a cleaning, so I can't go.  I think we'll be spending a part of the fourth out there, though.  And as many summer days as he can finagle out of me, I am sure!
Monday, December 26, 2011 0 comments By: Kate

The Best Christmas Ever! - 2011

I am sorry I am late posting this!  I would make all kinds of excuses about being busy (because I was), but truthfully, I have been putting off blogging this post for a specific reason.

I am running out of photo storage on Blogger.

If you click to some ancient-of-days post (say, from 2009 or something), the photos will be missing and will have a blank space with a minus sign where the picture used to be.  Phooey!!!  Blogger uses Picasa Web Albums for photo storage, and apparently, I have reached the limit of what Picasa is willing to store for me for free.  I either have to pay for more storage space (boo!), switch to another blogging forum (a definite possibility), or cull my photos.  I may switch my school website to some other platform and that should ease the photo problem, temporarily.

Anyways, this post is going to be photo rich, so I hesitated to put it out there, knowing it would destroy the oldest photos currently in existence on this site.  Ah well.  You can't have it all, I guess.

So, here goes;

Christmas Eve

 We set a more informal table for Christmas than for Thanksgiving.  Still, we pulled out the wine goblets and nice silverware.

 Thanksgiving dinner is always turkey.  Christmas dinner is always ham.  If you do anything other than that, I am sorry, but you are not from the 'true' family!  ;)  We had a side salad, green beans, and some twice baked potatoes, too.

 To drink, we had several different flavors of sparkling 'cider' and egg nog.

 Yes, Helena and I had fun taking pictures of our food, again!  Oi!  It was way too much food!  My eyes are always bigger than my stomach.  I need to mention, too, that dessert was yummy individual little cheesecakes made by Helena!

 Later that evening, Will decided to try mixing some egg nog and some sparkling cider.  Yes, I took a sip and yes, it tasted NASTY!  He ended up with a stomach ache later in the evening because it was. in fact, a BAD combo!

 Like most people, we have a tradition of giving PJ's for Christmas Eve gifts.  Here are Helena and Will in their new jammies...

 Notice how much taller Will is than Helena now?!?  She is officially done growing and is 5'6".  He is 15, still growing, and over 5'10" at the moment.


Group shots with the momma!

We finished up the evening with the traditional Luke 2 reading, then went downstairs to play a family game before bed.  Helena chose Cranium.  It has been so long since we played this one, that the playdoh in the tins had hardened and was unusable.  So we just skipped any card that said it was a scupturade.  We had a blast!  It doesn't really matter what game you play, it just matters that you play together as a family!

Oh!  I have to share this!  Helena and I were a team and we were doing a pictionary challenge.  I was the drawer and she was supposed to guess.  The word was 'dung beetle'.  I drew poop (it was a masterpiece, let me tell you) and a bug.  Her guesses?

"stink bug?" (I admit, that one was a good guess, but it goes downhill from there)...

"poop bug?"

"Fecal insect?!?"

I thought Bill was going to pass out he was laughing so hard!

No, we did not win that particular challenge, but who cares?  We had such a fun time!

Finally, everyone headed to bed at a shockingly reasonable time because we knew we had to be up, eat breakfast, and have the present opening all done before 10 am church.

Christmas Morning

Most years, there are some 'big' gifts sitting out from Santa.  However, this year, everyone got their 'big' gifts early.  That wasn't intentional, it just sort of happened.  So, most of the gifts under the tree were smaller, less expensive, but still very well thought out for each person involved.

 My favorite gift this year was from my son, Will!  He saw that I wanted a knitting board (from my recent blog post, probably), so he went to the local craft store and got me one!!!  AHHH!!!  Sweater knitting, here I come!  In the meantime, I am working on making a blanket out of squares of various knit patterns so I can learn them really well, first.  It is going to be awesome!  The colors are oatmeal, charcoal, and barn red!

There isn't a picture of it, but my second favorite gift was a secret stocking stuffer from my husband... a waterproof lap timer watch for swimming!  I've already tried it out and I found I push myself so much harder when I know I am timing myself!  Ah, what a killer workout!

 The kids gave Bill some snow shoes, so now, if it ever actually decides to snow this year... he'll be ready!

 Helena's reaction to a gift...

 This is the gift that had her so happy... a Harry Potter charm bracelet!  I got it off of Etsy.com.  Each of the seven book covers are attached to the front of scrabble tiles that spell out H POTTER, and there are silver charms in between that go along with the wizarding world of J.K. Rowling.  Yup.  It is good to know what makes your kids tick!

 Will in front of the fireplace looking through his stocking.  I don't have any photos of him opening presents this year, because he sat right beside me, and that is an awkward angle for photography.  Still, he was thrilled with his mostly weaponry themed Christmas.  I just hope the new CO2 powered airsoft gun doesn't lead to new holes in walls and fences!  He was also thrilled with his new tomahawk and arrows to restock the quiver on his bow!

 Here is a story for you.  Helena's favorite author is John Green.  She follows his youtube channel and has been eagerly awaiting the release of his new book, The Fault In Our Stars, set to come out January 10th.  I pre-ordered a signed copy and was planning to place the receipt in her stocking so she could anticipate its arrival.  But then...

I got an e-mail notification that my order had been shipped.

???

Then, John Green announced to the world that someone at Barnes & Noble had mistakenly shipped out the books EARLY!!!  He was devastated and everything was being done to stop the shipments, but that it was simply too late, the damage had been done and some of the books got leaked to the public before the official release date.

HELENA GOT ONE OF THE LEAKED BOOKS!!!  And I put it under the tree.

She had known about the leak and had been 'devastated', too, because she was worried about spoilers being posted, so she was over the moon when she opened the gift and realized that she had won the luck lottery on this one.  She was going to 'seal' it and wait until Jan. 10th to read it.  That only lasted a day.  She has now read it and is honoring the author's request to not post any spoilers out there for those who are still waiting for their copies to arrive.

Christmas Day

Last year, Will and I spent Christmas Day skiing at Sundance.  That was quite the experience and I truly had a blast!  Christmas day is the best day to go skiing because there are so few people up there.  So, Bill and I decided that we would make it into a family tradition!  After church, we geared up and headed up the mountain for a day for sunshine and snowy adventure.

 The pictures are all out of order, and I am too lazy to fix that, so you are getting a hodge-podge of the day.  These first two shots are actually later in the afternoon, during our lunch break back at the lodge cafe.

I can't begin to describe what a fun day it was!  All of us together on the mountain being active... nobody plugged in or shut off in an electronic world of their own!  

 Will is the only experienced skier in the family.  He took off for most of the day up on the real slopes, while the rest of us played around on the bunny hill all day.  He would come back and check up on us from time to time.

The bunny hill tow rope operator was named Casey.  He was friendly and helpful all day, especially to cute Helena, who was learning how to ride a snowboard for the first time.  Casey was 20 and very interested in learning more about Helena, too.  He took the photo of Bill, Helena, and I, then I took another photo with him in it.  BTW, Helena made her cute hat!


 This shot was actually taken at the end of the day.  The resort was shutting down for the evening, but Helena and Will wanted one more quick run down the final slope to the lodge, so they ran up the side on their own.

 Some shots of cute Helena giving snowboarding a try!

 She got compliments on her ski jacket from another woman on the slopes.

 Helena fell down plenty of times while trying the different tips and advice freely given to her by tow operator, Casey.  But she laughed it off and kept on trying.  She ended up doing really great by the end of the day!  I think she is ready to tackle the lift next time we go.  Bill is returning to skiing after a 20 year hiatus, so he didn't really need the bunny hill all that much, he just hung out with us anyways and went out of his way to 'crash' by going off into the bush instead of staying on the groomed hill.


 One of those rare moments when Will stopped by to see how we were doing.

 There has been no snow this year.  NONE!  Not even at the ski resorts.  It is pathetic, actually.  Last year there was tons of snow and the trees were all heavily laden with it!  This year, the only snow on the slopes is man made.  Still, we'll take it in order to have a fabulous Christmas day together!

I will admit, I am still a coward when it comes to skiing.  I ROCK the bunny hill!  I enjoy it immensely!  But when it comes to a real slope?  I am terrified!!!  Why do I want to strap boards on my feet and go careening at high speeds down a steep hill?!?  Because it is a fear I want to overcome.  So I will go back.  And back again.  And again.  Until I overcome that fear and am able to actually ENJOY skiing down a real mountain slope!

Christmas Evening

When we got home from skiing, we quickly changed and headed over to Erik and Deanna's house for a family party!  Peder and Jody are in town with their girls, so most the Weierholt siblings were there.  Only Trina and her family were missing.  It was a loud and boisterous night!  Most of the Weierholt cousins are young.  My kids are the oldest cousins except one.  Kai is older than Will, but not older than Helena.  But Kai is one of Trina's, and wasn't there, so most of the kids there were little.

Oh!  It was a great Christmas!  Full of fun and laughter, I can't wait to do it again next year!
Sunday, September 11, 2011 1 comments By: Kate

Always Remember



From a 'Proud American' to a 'Fierce Patriot'
What Older Generations Have Been Trying to Tell Us All Along, but We Were Forced to Learn from Experience
Publish Date: 09/10/2011
I used to 'roll my eyes' whenever older generations talked about how everyone could remember exactly what they were doing when a national tragedy struck. In my grandparents' generation it was the attack on Pearl Harbor that catapulted us into WWII. In my parents' generation is was the Kennedy assassination.
For my generation is was 9/11/2001.
It was a normal day.
I was getting ready for work. The kids were getting ready for school. Nothing out of the ordinary.
Until my husband called.
He leaves for work quite early in the mornings, so he was already at work when he called. He said, "Turn on the TV. Now."
I asked him what channel? He said, "It doesn't matter."
I walked into the living room and turned it on.
And found the world changed.
I had just barely begun to process what I was seeing, what they were saying, and what it meant when the south tower collapsed.
Live.
It was so surreal. My mind was thinking, 'that can't be real. It looks just like something you'd see in the movies, or on a planned demolition. How can it go straight down like that?' Simultaneously, my heart was twisting and tearing apart because I knew... I KNEW ... I was witnessing the deaths of thousands.
I remember grabbing the doorjamb for support as I cried out and tears coursed down my face. I kept saying aloud, "Oh please, God! Let them all be out of the building!!! Oh! They can't all have gotten out, yet!!!" My young daughter, only 7 at the time, came in and wanted to know why I was crying. "What's wrong, Mommy?" she asked.
I wasn't sure how to tell her what was wrong, or what it would mean to our country. I just knew I didn't want her seeing what I was seeing. She was so young. So innocent. I remember telling her I was sad that a lot of people had died. I also hugged her tight and told her that everything would be alright and she should go finish getting ready for school. Then I sent her firmly out of the room.
But I kept watching.
At some point I forced myself to turn off the TV and get out the door for work. I am an art teacher, working part time. When we got to the school, I walked around in a daze. The surreal feeling intensified for me because the school was just too quiet. Too normal. My mind was screaming and ripping itself apart over the images that were burned into my brain. How could anything be normal again?
Of course, things weren't normal. All of the teachers knew what had happened and were robotically going about their routines in a state of shock. The administration made the quick decision to not allow live news coverage in the elementary school classrooms. I do think that was for the best. We aren't talking about teenaged students here. These were very young children who couldn't possibly process what was going on. The school library was closed down for the day and the TV there was left running so that the adults in the building could stop in as often as possible and stay informed.
I didn't realize until I got home later that day that my husband was spared the trauma of seeing the buildings collapse live. He was listening on the radio when he called me. Of course, we all watched the events of that morning unfold hundreds of times afterwards, in a never ending loop of pain. But that first moment? Of realizing I was witnessing mass murder AS IT WAS HAPPENING? I can't even begin to describe it. It will never leave me.
I will never forget.
Do you remember how silent the skies were that day? When every flight was grounded? You never realize the background noise of planes on approach to the airport until there are no planes on approach.
Do you remember the pride you felt in the heroes of Flight 93? How brave and terrified they must have been! How they made an impossible choice that changed the tone of everything? They were Americans, fighting back!
Do you remember how much we honored firefighters, police men, and even the thousands of construction workers and volunteers who risked their lives in the aftermath?
Do you remember how our country came together? We were so UNITED! It no longer mattered what your religious or political credo was. We were all American. Every American flag was out, lining the streets, hanging from homes, flying from cars.
Do you remember how full the church congregations were? Everyone turning to their faith to see them through those dark times.
In the weeks and months following that horrific day we became the nation we were meant to be. Strong, caring, compassionate...
... united.
My brothers went to war. Jeff, a Naval officer, served several tours of duty to Iraq and Afghanistan. He came back with amazing stories... and bullet holes in his plane. Peder, an Army Special Forces officer, also served several tours ... including a lot of time on the ground in Baghdad. His stories were also incredible, though it was the stories that he didn't tell that made my heart ache for him. Anyone who is ignorant enough to ask a veteran if he killed anyone in the line of duty should be shunned right out of the conversation. I still don't know the answer to that question, and I'll never ask it.
I was blessed that they both came back home. It is enough for me.
Four years ago, my oldest joined the military. He is a Marine. I have never felt so proud as I did on the day I attended his basic training graduation at MCRD, San Diego. I still have the 'Service Flag' hanging proudly in the front window for him. The 'Service Flag', or 'Blue Star Flag', is a symbol of a family's sacrifice when an immediate family member is in active service during a time of war. If that family member should be killed in the line of duty, a gold star would replace the blue star. The practice of hanging a 'Service Flag' dates back to WWI. I am proud to display it, though I will be glad to take it down when we are officially at peace. 
It is 10 years after the tragic events that we commemorate today. Ten years.
Many have forgotten. Or become complacent. They have gone back to their normal lives. There is bickering. There is dissent. There is arguing and back stabbing and doubt even about what this war is really about. Or that it even was a terrorist attack.
Shame on them.
Always remember what we lost that day.
Never forget what your freedom costs.
How has 9/11 changed me? I will forever be a fierce patriot. I am an American who knows it is the duty of every citizen to stand and defend our sovereign soil. I was proud of my military family before, but I am honored by them now. I stand with previous generations who have faced the refiner's fire...

... and I will never forget.






Tuesday, August 23, 2011 2 comments By: Kate

Unexpected Heroes

I have struggled with depression lately.  Life has not been going well, to say the least.  It seems like the old adage "everything that can go wrong will go wrong" is being fulfilled in my life.  I won't go blow by blow through the list of things that have been tearing me down lately, because, really, who wants to write down all the things that have them depressed?!?  Besides, if you have been following this blog, you already know most of it.  The two most recent things, though, came right on top of each other yesterday.

Yesterday afternoon I discovered that my teaching contract has been reduced by more than I had been lead to believe last spring.  So I will be making even less than I had anticipated.  That comes as an extra blow on top of our current financial situation.  It also is a psychological blow, because I have to wonder how much the district actually values me if they are willing to slash my income so drastically while the administrators making these decisions make six figure salaries.  It is very easy to cut the budget when you don't personally know the people whose lives suffer for that decision.

The second setback came when I got home from work in the evening and found out that the Expedition broke down yesterday.  The day before school starts.

We only have two cars.  I drive the Alero and the kids use the Expedition.  Bill has a work truck... at least when he is working and not recovering from major surgery.

Ah!  I felt like the Universe has it out for me!  Or like God is picking on me.  I do not have the patience of Job, it seems.  I really had a hard time finding anything to feel good about last night.

Do you remember that cheesy song from the musical 'Annie'?  "The Son Will Come Out Tomorrow"

Bet your bottom dollar!

So, today my brother-in-law, Craig, came over to our house and fixed the Expedition for us!  He has a traveling auto repair service business.  I could count on one hand the number of times I have seen him without grease all over his hands and/or clothing.  Years ago I was self absorbed enough to be critical of that.  I snobbishly looked down on him for not being more neat and tidy in his appearance.

You know what?  Today Craig is my hero!  He was the answer to my unspoken prayer (because I was too mad at God to pray).  He spent a working day at our house putting our car to rights simply because we are family and he had a way to help.  He will probably never know what a burden was lifted from my heart this afternoon, thanks to him.

And after my heart felt not quite so heavy, I was able to look back on the other heroes who have been quietly helping us through this sinkhole we have found ourselves in.

My niece, Kristy, gave us a 'Bountiful Basket' the week after Bill got home from the hospital.  'Bountiful Baskets' is a local phenomenon/business.  It is a kind of like subscribing to a dairy delivery, only it is local produce instead of dairy.  So Kristy brought over a whole "basket" full of fresh, local, organic fruits and vegetables at a time when I wasn't sure of our grocery budget.  We ended up only needing to buy bare basics at the store that week.

My sister-in-law, Crystal, and her husband, Jeff, took us on that fabulous week of adventure to Steamboat Springs that took my mind off of things for a while, then insisted we keep all the leftover groceries from the trip!  Again, I had a stocked fridge!  That was really incredible!

My sister, Kirsten, and her husband, Paul, volunteered to pay Will's lacrosse fees for this fall since that isn't on the 'need' budget list and would have had to be cut until the finances are back to where they should be.  That was one I agonized over because I hated the thought of Will missing out.  They also bought dog food for our dogs and have had us over to dinner.  My brother, Erik, and his wife, Deanna, have also had us over for dinner several times and/or brought dinner to us.

Bill's work, ESP Excavation, worked it out so that Bill could receive some of next year's vacation pay to help us meet our bills.  Thanks, Liz, for taking care of that!

When one of the line items on Bill's physical therapy bill got rejected by the insurance, the PT, Russ, told him not to worry about it and just crossed that item off the bill altogether.

The manager at Rubio's, Eva, gave us our dinner for free last week, just because she was glad to see us.  And today, our friend, David, gave Bill a gift card for Rubio's as a thank you for taking care of their dogs while they were away.  Another date night paid for!

It is very easy to get sucked down into a vortex of depression when you think of all the things that go wrong in our lives.  What is more amazing, though, is the number of people in our lives who quietly step in and smooth the way when the going gets rough.  Each one of these people stepped in and became an unexpected hero at a time when I needed it most.

Thank you.