Friday, August 12, 2011 0 comments By: Kate

The Return of Date Night

We have been unable to go on a 'Date Night' ever since Bill's accident, for various reasons.  First, he was in no condition to go anywhere.  When he started feeling better, we had to watch the finances very carefully!

This week, we were finally able to go out on a date!

Bill took me on a very short little hike to a waterfall up some minor canyon above Salt Lake City.  He could probably tell you its proper name, I can't.  To get there, we had to drive up into the gated communities to the East of the city and 'hike' through a neighborhood to get to the trail head.  That was a new one for me!  Usually the trail head is already a bit out of civilization to start with.  This one was right between two very large homes.  Weird!  Still, it was AMAZING how quickly we left civilization behind.  In less than a 1/2 mile all city sounds had been replaced with the beauties of nature.  LOVE IT!




 I was very annoyed when I downloaded the photos and realized there as a smudge on the camera lens!

 The 'end of the trail' led us to this beautiful little waterfall/grotto.  I say 'end of trail' like that because there was an extension to the trail above and possibly to the top of the falls, but it was so steep... with so much scree on the trail... that we decided it was better not to risk it.




Still, when I turned around, I found Bill climbing in places he really shouldn't have been, considering he is only a few weeks out from destroying his elbow!  I watched him splay himself against the rock face, working carefully on getting back down with the limited use he has of his right arm.  I sometimes think he is completely crazy!

After the hike, we drove back down to our local Rubio's restaurant.  We haven't been in several weeks, obviously, so when Eva (the manager) saw us, she must have been very happy because she gave us our meal for free!  It is really our 'hang out'.  If you are looking for Bill and I around dinner time on a Friday evening, try Rubio's!  And, I have to confess, later in the evening, Bill took our son, Will, back for dinner, as well.  We did pay for that one!

You must conjecture from this that our finances must not be too dire, if we are willing to eat out.  We are still not out of the woods, but we are able to meet our bills enough to be able to have one evening out in the midst of it all.

I am looking forward to our next date!
Thursday, August 11, 2011 1 comments By: Kate

Bragging Rights

My Dad forwarded this e-mail to me and I just felt like sharing with the world.

Ivar,
I just absolutely LOVE the sailing photos.  Thanks so much for sharing them.  Sailing with Will was a joy.  He's a great kid.  You must be proud.
Blessings,
Sandy

I LOVE hearing good things about my kids from perfect strangers!  Of course, I think my kids are wonderful... every mother does!  But it is really great to hear it from other people, too!  Way to go, Will!

 


Wednesday, August 10, 2011 1 comments By: Kate

Arm Update


Here is the 3 week x-ray of Bill's arm.  He is out of all casts now and in physical therapy.  Since the injury involves a joint, the doctor doesn't want to keep it immobile longer than absolutely necessary.  The longer it is in a cast, the more it will freeze up and lose mobility.

So now Bill is free to get his arm wet and to do the exercises his PT gave him three times a week.  Bill is the most determined person I have ever known and I am sure he'll regain full range of motion.  The doc and the therapist were both surprised at how much he can move already, so that is a good sign.  Bill intends to return to work in two weeks... cutting the down time by a week.  I am torn because, of course I want him back at work, our budget demands it.  However, I worry that if he pushes too fast he'll re-injure it and we'll be worse off than before.

I think Bill should keep a little laminated copy of this x-ray in his wallet to show security whenever he plans to fly!  What do you think? 
Tuesday, August 09, 2011 0 comments By: Kate

Sorry for the Short Intermission

Really, I am!

My computer accidentally got destroyed when some soda spilled.  One of my friends said "See!  Soda is bad!"  Yup.  If it doesn't kill you, it will kill your computer!

The death of the computer was the second bad luck event... as you know, they come in threes.  So...

One,  Bill destroys his elbow, requiring reconstructive surgery and 5 to 6 weeks off of work with no pay.

Two, I destroy my computer.  I took it in to technology, where it was pronounced dead.  I just received the replacement yesterday, though I still have to pay my portion for it.  Fortunately, my principal was understanding and agreed I could pay later when Bill is back to work.

And, of course, Three...  The Alero failed its safety inspection on all four tires.  Its registration was up at the end of June, so we've been driving on expired plates.  You can get away with that for a month, but after that, cops tend to hand out tickets.  When August rolled around, we couldn't put it off any more.  We had to 'buy' tires.  But, of course, with Bill not working, we couldn't afford the tires.  Grrr!  Here is the moment where I am grateful for that curse, credit.  We had to put the tires on account... again expecting to pay once Bill is back to work.

Anyways, the reason for my long absence from my blog is the lack of this computer.  We do have a PC laptop, but with four people wanting access to one computer, I just decided I'd rather wait; especially since I am a Mac and PCs just frustrate me.

But, I am back now!  Click on the title at the top (The life and times of the Watson clan) to load my full blog.  Then you can find posts covering events I missed blogging about over the past couple of weeks!  I will date them according to when they happened, not when they were written... sort of.

I'm glad to be back!

Sailing

My dad is a sailor.  For as long as I can remember, he has had a sailboat.  He tried to teach me how to sail when I was a kid, but I made a poor sailor.  All the different ropes (which are called 'lines' on a boat) just confused me.  It made me nervous and Dad unhappy, so he gave up.

Thankfully, my son wants to be a sailor!  He fell in love with the whole idea years ago when my dad took him out sailing.  So, a couple of years ago, I sent Will off for a summer adventure of learning to sail with his grandpa.  He enjoyed it so much that I decided I needed to send him every summer!  We all went as a family last summer, so this summer was the next opportunity for Will to have his grandparents all to himself.

He left last Wednesday, in the middle of our trip to Steamboat Springs.  I'll recount that in the Steamboat Springs post, though.  He came home just last night.

While learning with his grandpa, Will had the opportunity to meet some members of the Peninsula Sailing Club and try out their little 14' sailboats.  He made such an impression on a lady named Sandy, that she invited him to join them in their annual Seafair regatta (sailboat race)!  Honestly, though, my dad paved the way for that in advance of Will coming.  Still, it was an exciting opportunity for Will and I know he loved every minute of it!  There were four races, his boat placing second, third, second, and second respectively!

Will is the one in the yellow life vest.  This is in the Puget Sound off of the Brownsville Marina, not far from Bremerton.



All of these sailing shots are incredible!  My dad was the photographer, taking pictures from his own sailboat, which was not in the race, being a bigger boat.  Such great pictures, dad!!!  Really!


I love this one!  Will's boat is in second place in this shot.

I am so glad Will got the chance to go sail again this year!  We hope to find him his own small boat next summer for the lakes down here.  But I still want him to keep going back to his grandpa for more practical lessons and experience!
Monday, August 08, 2011 0 comments By: Kate




How could you resist such a beautiful cupcake?!

I admired it when I first walked into the grocery store, but was going to walk by, since it was hardly a need.  However, temptation was present in the form of my daughter, who insisted I buy it.  It was as delicious as it was beautiful.  Fortunately, this was BEFORE Bill's accident.  I certainly can't add frivolous treats to the cart right now!
Saturday, August 06, 2011 0 comments By: Kate

41

Today is my birthday.  I am 41 years young.  I really feel healthier and stronger than I have in years!  I am two weeks away from competing in my first ever triathlon and I feel great!  In fact, today, for the first time, I made it up the monster hill on my bike trail!  I have been slowing working on trying to get up that beast of a hill without having to get off the bike and walk it for weeks now and I finally did it today!

I haven't lost any weight with all this training.  Probably because I am not watching what I eat at all.  I feel great, though, strong, in fact... and my clothes fit much better than before.

The rest of the day was really low key.  I shopped a bit with Helena for some back to school items, I lounged at the pool, and we had family over for a BBQ in the evening.  I ended the day gazing at the stars while toasting my toes over the embers of a fire in the fire pit in my back yard.  Yup.  It is a good time to be alive.  Even with all the trials.

It is a good time to be alive.

Steamboat Springs

This will be a very long post, with lots of pictures, so just sit back and enjoy!

While Bill was in the hospital recovering from surgery, his sister, Crystal, sent me a text asking if we would like to join her family in Steamboat Springs for a vacation before school started.  Bill and I both thought that sounded wonderful, but we knew that it would just be impossible financially.  When we let her know our concerns, however, she insisted we come... and not spend a penny!  They have a time share and wanted us to come stay with them in a three bedroom condo.  They made the arrangements for the first week of August.  There was only one snag.  We had already purchased Will's ticket to fly out to stay with my parents for almost the same time period.  Jeff and Bill said they would drive Will back to the Salt Lake airport mid-week, then return to Steamboat Springs.

I thought, 'That's crazy!  That is a 12 hour round trip in the middle of a vacation!  No way!'  But everyone insisted it would all work out.  Their oldest, David, also had to return to town for his work schedule, they said.

 So it was settled.  We left on the morning of Monday, August 1st.  


We stopped in Vernal for lunch.  This is David and his little brother, Marcus.  We were maybe an hour into our driving when I started really feeling bad about having to do the drive twice because of Will's flight.  I was feeling really guilty about it and wishing we had come up with some other solution.  But Crystal had been very adamant that she wanted Will to come along in order to be company for David.

 Our next stop was in a tiny town called Maybel, for gas.  We jokingly called it 'Mayberry', then had to explain to the kids why, since their lexicon of TV knowledge didn't extend that far back.

 This is the town.  One of those tiny little communities that probably exist just about everywhere.

 When we got to the condo, we sent the older boys off to play right away, knowing that they would only have one full day of Colorado adventures before they would have to head back again.  While we were unloading suitcases and groceries, the little boys got into everything they could find.  Marcus was soon using the drawers in the living room as his own personal jungle gym, while we quickly lifted any and every blinds set little Alex could reach to prevent him from destroying them.  A couple of days later, Marcus would get himself stuck in the lowest drawer and need to be rescued.

Marcus was very keen on getting out to the pool, so Crystal told him he could get in the 'little pool' inside the condo... the tub.  He put on his swim suit and started just splashing up a storm in that 'pool'.  Alex crawled in and started watching him from the side.  Before you know it, Alex was belly laughing over Marcus' antics and I am not sure which of them was having a better time!

Notice that the water JUST  covers the jets?  Um, yeah.  Marcus wanted the 'bubbles' on, so I pushed the button for him.  Suddenly, HUGE JETS of water were roaring and blasting him!  Water was EVERYWHERE!  Both Marcus and Alex got scared and half the tub of water was on the floor of the bathroom!  I couldn't stop laughing while trying to console Alex.  Crystal thought it was hysterical, too!  She found later that there was another knob that controlled the pressure of water flowing through the jets.  It had been set on 'high'.  Oops. 

 I took this shot from the living room balcony of Will on the Master Suite balcony.  There was a hot tub on that balcony that everyone enjoyed.

 The view from the living room balcony.  The pool is part of the complex.  There was another outdoor pool, as well as an indoor pool, a fitness room, several hot tubs, a steam room, and a sauna.  We tried them all!  I DON'T like steam rooms, but Crystal, Helena, and I used the sauna on more than one occasion.  It feels really great to get all hot in the sauna, then jump immediately into a cool pool!

 On our first full day in Steamboat Springs, we decided the big boys should choose the activities, since it would be their only day.  The first activity of the day was tubing down the Yampa River.  Bill and I volunteered to stay at the condo with the little boys, since they were too young to participate, and since Bill's cast prevented him from participating as well.  Jeff and Crystal took all the bigger kids down the river while Bill and I took the little boys to the pool to play.  I sent my camera with them, but it got left in the car, so there are no pictures of that.  Darn.

The second activity of the day was to ride the gondola lift at the ski mountain.
Sarah and Helena in the gondola.  Helena will be a senior in high school in just a couple of weeks.  Yikes!  Sarah is going into 8th grade.


 The views were, of course, beautiful!  I don't have a picture of it, but while we were riding up in the gondolas, we saw a baby bear in the meadow below us!  REALLY!  I have no idea where its mother was, but it was gamboling through the meadow, with hikers on the trail a quarter mile above it!  After that, I was quite anxious to make sure that everyone in our group stay together!


 Will was very excited to see all the ski slopes and wants very much to come back to Steamboat Springs during the ski season.  This ski resort dwarfs all the resorts near us at home!  This picture really doesn't do it justice.  The slopes seemed never ending!  The picture above is only one tiny portion of the entire ski mountain.


 While on a little nature hike, a portrait snapshot war broke out.

I'm not going to lie.  The nature hike was a bit stressful, when it didn't need to be.  It is my fault, really.  We got to the mountain late in the afternoon and were warned that the last return gondola trip would be at 4:30 pm.  If we missed it, we would be stuck on the mountain for the night.  Though, really, I am sure they have had to deal with people who missed the deadline before... they are all about tourism and it is bound to happen.  But that wasn't my thought process at the time.  I was very conscious of the time and was constantly worried that we would walk too far and not make it back in time.  Bill doesn't worry about that kind of stuff, and it usually turns out OK, but I just worry anyways and it spoils the time we do have.  Bill is off adventuring, and I am stressing and trying to reel him back to stay close to the lift.  Really, though, what's the point of going up there?  Just to stand by the lift and ride it back down?  I wish I wasn't such a stick in the mud!

Halfway into the hike (which wasn't very fun, the path was too broad and sunny, we didn't have water, and the view didn't vary), Jeff, Crystal, and I decided we had gone far enough and were going to sit and wait for Bill and the kids to come back.  I was extremely tired and thirsty with a sore throat from a cold I couldn't shake and just wanted to go find a water fountain back at the lodge.  After a little while, an older couple with their dog came by and informed us that the hike actually made a loop back to the lodge and we were at the half way point.  They recommended we go forward, not back.  That also meant that the others weren't going to return and would, in fact, beat us back to the lodge.  Harumph!

So, we set off down the path... and I am so glad we did!!!  The second half of the trail more than made up for the miserable first half!  It was shady.  It was varied.  It was beautiful!





 Back at the lodge I finally managed to find a water fountain!  That stupid cold was making it hard for me to enjoy the day because my throat was just on fire.  We did make it onto the gondolas with just a little time to spare.

The final activity for the day was the Alpine Slide.  It was on a different ski slope on the other side of town.  You ride an open chair lift up to the top, then slide down a windy slide on little sleds that you can control.
 

 The slide was amazingly long!  As we rode up the first time, we saw a child crash!  There are two tracks side by side.  His mother was on the other track.  She quickly pulled his sled off his track, then had him sit in front of her on her sled and took him the rest of the way down the mountain.  I guess that is why we all had to sign liability waivers beforehand, eh?  In fact, Sarah crashed on her second trip down the slide and got a huge abrasion on her elbow.

 Helena and Sarah on the lift to the slide.

 Will and David on sleds waiting for their turn to race each other down the mountain.

When we got back to the condo, Crystal told me that she was under the impression that Bill didn't really want to have to spend 12 hours driving, so she was going to drive it with Jeff and leave Sarah in charge of the two little boys for the day.  Then she said she would just take the two little boys with them on the drive, too.  She was trying in every way to bend over backwards to make sure we had a great time.  The only trouble was, I could NOT have any kind of fun knowing she was going through so much inconvenience for me!  What kind of person would that make me?  When I was already guilt ridden about it in the first place!  And, of course, I felt it was important that Will have one of his parents see him off at the airport.

So, I took Bill's place in the drive back to Salt Lake.  I went to bed at 11 pm, but couldn't fall asleep until midnight.  Jeff had taken some Benadryl to help him sleep the first part of the drive, so at one in the morning I took a 5 hour energy drink in order to make the drive to Salt Lake.  It is amazing how quickly that time flew by in the dark of the night.  Just me and my thoughts for mile after mile!

At one point in the night, Jeff was awake with me as I blazed right over a skunk!  Not one of those stinky road kills, either!  A live skunk that was crossing the road!  I blasted right over the top of it going 80 miles per hour... and did not hit it at all!  That was one LUCKY skunk!!!  It literally went right under us and all four tires missed it!  Man-oh-man!  I am SO glad we didn't hit it!

All went well with dropping David off at their house, and dropping Will off at the airport.  I've gotta tell ya, the airport is not a welcoming place anymore!  It is amazing how much more security there is now than there was even two years ago!  However, despite all the hype about physical searches and radiation machines, Will went right through minimal security without a glitch and was soon waving goodbye from the far side of the screening process.

Jeff drove us back to Steamboat Springs, while I told him story after story about life growing up as a Weierholt.  I can't sleep during the day, and certainly not in a moving vehicle!  At one point, a bird swooping in front of us miscalculated and we hit it.  Guaranteed it was killed.  So sad, but what can you do?  On the way home from the entire trip another bird was killed in the same fashion, also while Jeff was driving.  So, one skunk survives, two birds don't.

When we got back to Steamboat, Crystal said that the grown ups were going to go out to eat while the girls watched the little boys and ordered pizza.  We went to a little Italian restaurant that was actually in the basement of a building.  The atmosphere was very pub-like.  I wish I could say the food was excellent.  In fact, it probably was!  Everyone else liked their food.  I just couldn't taste a thing.  My sinuses were so blocked that no smells or tastes were able to get through for most of the rest of the week.  However, I will say this, we had a fantastic time; partly because I was so loopy.  By then I was going on 36 hours on only one hour of sleep.  I was beyond tired.  When I get to that point, I just get a little punch drunk.  I am sure the others found me quite entertaining.  They certainly laughed at me enough to be having fun!  ;-)

 The next day was spent by most of us by walking the main street of town and doing some shopping.  Bill didn't join us.  He went on a hike in the mountains alone.  I don't like when he does that, especially since he had a gimpy arm!  But he is a grown man and I am not his mommy.

 There were some cool statues in front of one store and we all took turns posing with one or the other of them.

 Ah!  F M Light & Sons!  They had little mini billboards lining the route into town for miles and miles!  By the time we reached town we were certain of one thing... we had to visit F M Light & Sons!!  It is a cowboy store.  I bought Bill some super hot buffalo wing sauce so he could have a little piece of this well advertised store.

While walking around town everyone got hungry, so we stopped for lunch at a Mexican restaurant.  I LOVED my food, as did nearly everyone else.  I think only Jeff was disappointed with his meal.  This is a picture of Helena, Crystal, and baby Alex.



 Thursday evening was spent at the pool.  Helena and Sarah played 'peek-a-boo' with Alex, who was drying off in my lap.

 On Friday morning, before heading back home, there were a couple of left over tickets for the Alpine Slide, so Helena and Sarah went down it one more time.  Helena took Marcus with her on her sled and he had a blast!
It was really an amazing vacation!  It was wonderful to put aside my worries about Bill's injuries and how to make ends meet for just a little while.  I knew I'd have to face it all again when I got home... how to pay the bills without any money coming in... but it was just great to spend one week just playing and having fun with family!  Really, Jeff and Crystal... I can't thank you enough!!
Friday, August 05, 2011 0 comments By: Kate

Party Lights

A few months ago, while shopping at Target, I ran across these strings of lights that someone else had obviously considered buying, then changed their minds and put on a random shelf.  There were only two boxes, and I had no idea how much they cost, but I just knew I had to have them! 

They sat around for months.  Helena and I both decided to install them on the same hot summer day, so I let her take the lead and just helped her hang them.  Yup!  It was HOT out!  But they do look great and add that little extra special sparkle to the back yard party scene!